3 powerful insights that will elevate your leadership

Imagine walking into a room you’ve lived in for years, only to have someone point out a window you’ve never noticed. It’s not that it wasn’t there—it’s just that you’ve been too close to see it. As leaders, we often find ourselves in this exact situation: immersed in the demands of day-to-day work, so close to our teams, culture, and challenges that the most critical insights remain hidden in plain sight.

What if the patterns you don’t see are the ones holding you back? What if the blind spots you’ve come to accept are costing you opportunities for growth—personally and professionally?

Leadership isn’t just about making better decisions or managing teams more effectively. It’s about uncovering truths, embracing challenges, and stepping into the kind of growth that not only changes how you lead but also how you see yourself. What might you discover if you allowed yourself to see differently? And what impact could that have on the outcomes you most want to achieve?

In this blog post, we’ll explore 3 powerful insights that will elevate your leadership. These are the shifts that change how you lead, how you think, and, ultimately, how you show up in every aspect of your life to get more of what you want.

Clarity beyond the chaos

When we first start working with a leader, they often think they'll be focusing on surface-level skills. What they don’t expect is finding deeper clarity around their goals, values, and decision-making. Time and again, we’ve heard leaders reflect, “This hasn’t just changed how I lead—it’s changed how I think about work entirely.” 

Our partnership helps uncover what truly drives you, cut through the noise, and focus on what matters most. Leaders feel more personally and professionally fulfilled, less anxious about conflict, and more curious. Those around them enjoy coming to work. Many have shared moments of clarity, courage, and connection that change not just what they do and how they work, but who they are. The result is leaders that are faster, more confident and have a bigger impact.

Stronger, more authentic relationships

Many assume that executive coaching is all about improving individual performance—helping leaders become more effective at making decisions or driving results. But what’s often surprising is how much it positively impacts their relationships. They develop a greater sense of trust, empathy, and collaboration. Leaders who once approached their direct reports with surface-level feedback are now having bold, meaningful conversations that spark growth and accountability. 

And it’s not just with their teams, but also with peers and even in their personal lives. We’ve had a few executives share with us how learning to have courageous conversations at work helped them address long-standing tensions with their partners. The same emotional intelligence that helps us lead teams helps us nurture our most important relationships.

A fresh perspective on blind spots

Executive coaching isn’t just about offering encouragement or motivating leaders to keep growing. True growth rarely comes from staying in your comfort zone. It happens when someone asks the questions no one else will or challenges you to see what others can’t. That’s the value of an outside perspective—a partner who isn’t tied to your organization’s history, politics, or assumptions. Someone who can uncover the truths that get overlooked and highlight possibilities you didn’t know existed.

Our work with leaders doesn’t just create awareness. It opens up ways to approach problems, leading to breakthrough solutions you hadn’t considered before.


For executives, professional development is personal development. When you develop as a leader, you’re really developing as a person. You become more aware, more intentional, and more capable of creating a positive impact in all your relationships, your vision for the future and organizational results.

With Incito, we approach our work as your thought partner. We’ll provide an objective perspective, a sounding board for your thoughts, hard feedback when needed, and encouragement to harness your strengths. Whether through one-on-one coaching, collective team development, or strategy development, we also help leaders make sense of the bigger picture and think more strategically about their challenges. If you’re looking for a fresh perspective on leadership, let’s talk!

Jenn Lofgren & Shawn Gibson

Jenn Lofgren - Managing Partner and Founder

Shawn Gibson - Partner, Executive Strategy

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